Darlene Lancer
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Trauma and Abuse Recovery
Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books.
Interviewed by David Jacks of the Trauma Recovery Summit.
WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go"
Follow Darlene's blog at www.whatiscodependency.com/blog
BOOKS: "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist" is for sale in stores and online buff.ly/3K4RyKM
"Codependency for Dummies" is for sale in stores and at amzn.to/1BBcrWO
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Відео

Codependency, Narcissism, Shame
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Watch my interview with VIrgin.Beauty.Bitch hosts about codependency and narcissism, the childhood roots of each, the impact of shame, and how to heal codependency. Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 mor...
Narcissists, Sociopaths, Shame, and Codependency
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Mystic Pete (KXLU.com) interview (plus Powerpoint) of Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow D...
Leaving a Narcissistic or Abusive Relationship
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Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow Darlene's blog at www.whatiscodependency.com/blog BOOKS...
The Overlap Between Narcissism and Codependency
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Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, interviewed by Les Carter, PhD discussing the origin, similarity, attraction, and dynamics between narcissists and codependents. Lancer is the author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. WEBSITE: www.what...
Interviewed by Mariel Hemmingway on Narcissistic and Passive Aggressive People
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Interview with Mariel Hemmingway and Melissa Yamaguchi about the dynamics of relationships with narcissists and passive-aggressive people and how to change them. Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more b...
Signs and Symptoms of Codependency and Narcissism and the Effect of Shame
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Darlene Lancer, is the author of: "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships." buff.ly/3DZ6vNI "Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You" ttps://amzn.to/37fueWd "Codependency for Dummies" amzn.to/2BOTDZO For a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go," see...
Discussion about the Mind, Motivation and Behavior of Narcissists in Relationships
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Interview with Kevin McDonald of Positive Talk Radio Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow Da...
The Danger of a Covert Narcissist
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Interview with James Bonato about Covert Narcissism Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. Read more about Covert Narcissists: original.newsbreak.com/@darlene-lancer-lmft-1590535/2830317236370-th...
How to Set Boundaries
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Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow Darlene's blog at www.whatiscodependency.com/blog BOOKS...
3 Recovery Exercises for Self-Love, Confidence, and Relaxation
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Codependency Recovery Exercises to develop self-love and confidence and to soothe anxiety. For FREE "14 Tips on Letting Go" and more info, blogs, interviews, and books, see www.whatiscodependency.com. Get the Self-Love Meditation and Self-nurturing tips.
Codependency in Narcissists and Their Partners
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Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. Interview with author Tracy Malone WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow Darlene's blog at ww...
Codependency: A Lost Self
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Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow Darlene's blog at www.whatiscodependency.com/blog BOOKS...
The Mind and Behavior of a Narcissist and Steps to Recovery
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Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books is interviewed by Joshua Stuart WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow Darlene's blog at www.wh...
The Narcissist's Mind and Behavior and Codependency Recovery
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Darlene Lancer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships,” "Codependency for Dummies," and 8 more books. WEBSITE: www.whatiscodependency.com Subscribe and get a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go" Follow Darlene's blog at www.whatiscodependency.com/blog BOOKS...
Recovery Today: Codependency and Shame Underlie Narcissism and Addiction
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Recovery Today: Codependency and Shame Underlie Narcissism and Addiction
Common Symptoms and Boundaries of Codependents and Narcissists
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Common Symptoms and Boundaries of Codependents and Narcissists
The Forces that Drive Narcissism and Codependency
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The Forces that Drive Narcissism and Codependency
The Link Between Shame, Codependency, and Narcissism
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The Link Between Shame, Codependency, and Narcissism
Narcissistic Relationships and Shame
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Narcissistic Relationships and Shame
Reclaiming Your Power in Narcissistic Relationships
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Reclaiming Your Power in Narcissistic Relationships
Signs of Codependency & Steps to Recover - The Mind Journal
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Signs of Codependency & Steps to Recover - The Mind Journal
Signs and Symptoms of Narcissism and Codependency
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Signs and Symptoms of Narcissism and Codependency
Relationships with Narcissists From Dating to Leaving
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Relationships with Narcissists From Dating to Leaving
The Dynamics of Relationships with Narcissists
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The Dynamics of Relationships with Narcissists
How to Diagnose a Narcissist
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How to Diagnose a Narcissist
Shame, Addiction and Codependency in the Family
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Shame, Addiction and Codependency in the Family
How to Recognize a Narcissist and Respond
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How to Recognize a Narcissist and Respond
Codependency and Intimacy
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Codependency and Intimacy
The Heartbreak of Parents of Addicts
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The Heartbreak of Parents of Addicts

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @4LovePeace
    @4LovePeace 2 дні тому

    Thank you!

  • @nnylasoR
    @nnylasoR 3 дні тому

    WOW.

  • @katherinelydon7306
    @katherinelydon7306 15 днів тому

    Feels like being unloved and unwanted. It caused me to over give in the hopes of being loved back.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 15 днів тому

      Yes, but can be very subtle. Parents can say I love you and provide for you but lack empathy and shame you in subtle ways, as described in my book, "Conquering Shame and Codependency."

  • @johnsegelke4385
    @johnsegelke4385 27 днів тому

    Extremely enlightening. One of the best discussions on the topic I've seen online.

  • @carolgerber6375
    @carolgerber6375 Місяць тому

    What's up with the background noise? geez.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer Місяць тому

      Sorry about that. I didn't control the recording

  • @gorgeousgarb
    @gorgeousgarb Місяць тому

    so helpful. I'm listening to your podcasts on repeat. you have changed my life.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer Місяць тому

      Thank you for letting me know. Have you read my book, "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships." buff.ly/3DZ6vNI ?

  • @carolgerber6375
    @carolgerber6375 Місяць тому

    Let Darlene talk for God's sake

  • @carolgerber6375
    @carolgerber6375 Місяць тому

    Stop yelling.

  • @danielaboboc9021
    @danielaboboc9021 Місяць тому

    I was interested in the subject, but the acoustics are very bad and I don't know English well enough. So I didn't understand much, disappointing for me.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer Місяць тому

      Sorry about that. Listen to my videos on shame and read this blog: whatiscodependency.com/what-is-self-esteem-raise-self-esteem/ You can get the Sef Esteem seminar: whatiscodependency.com/product/how-to-raise-your-self-esteem/

  • @lizh1970
    @lizh1970 Місяць тому

    You say the narcassist projects the inner critic onto others then you say some with personality disorders or codependents are sensitive to criticism which is infact a form of abuse . Codependents don't want to just bask in the limelight of the narcassist they think the can care for and fix people to recieve internal validation so they can feel like a good person . Self love is to do with acceptance including flaws and realising humans are not perfect as some might believe . Yet when you are sacrificing yourself to care while you are being abused that's a bit toxic if you did have self love you wouldn't accept abuse thats not self love .

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer Місяць тому

      Correct. That is why people with underlying shame and low self-esteem bond with abusers (who also carry shame). People with hi self-esteem would not sacrifice their needs and self-respect. Both codependents and narcissists are sensitive to criticism because of lack of self-love. Narcissists react with rage, whereas codependents usually absorb the criticism as true. Grandiose narcissists don't present as needing help, but covert narcissists and people with BPD and addicts often due, which attracts caretakers.

  • @agibby4848
    @agibby4848 2 місяці тому

    I’m in a state of pure pain and shock. I am a shell of who I am. I need serious help. The discard is brutal.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 2 місяці тому

      I'm so sorry. Do get support. Listen to my seminar "Breakup Recovery" bit.ly/1tnSKRT

    • @agibby4848
      @agibby4848 10 днів тому

      @@DarleneLancerthank you so much. I will listen.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 10 днів тому

      @@agibby4848 Yes, it is. But deeper understanding of a narcissist, as explained in my book, will help you realize that this behavior is not personal, but predictable given a narcissist's constant need to manage their fragile ego.

  • @carolgerber6375
    @carolgerber6375 2 місяці тому

    Do you have ideas on setting boundaries with a boss, the CFO!? Yikes, fine line there. It's tough to work for someone who is not only professionally incompetent, and also personally incompetent. A lot of these rights that are listed cannot be applicable in a work environment.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 2 місяці тому

      Yes, it's tough and also depends on your boss' personality. You do have human rights, such as to be treated fairly and with respect, and several legal rights to relevant information, privacy, safety, reasonable working hours, medical leave, etc. It's not a good idea to bring feelings or emotions into the discussion, but using Strategic Transactional Communication as described in my book, "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist" can work. Let your boss know that his/her behavior impairs your performance in a way that benefits the company's goals. If it's only their incompetence, you may have to adjust your expectations and/or diplomatically ask if you may make suggestions.

  • @yvonnealkemade5473
    @yvonnealkemade5473 2 місяці тому

    Very good and also helpful and supporting talk. Sharp questions, very wise answers. ❤ Darlene Lancer is one of the top experts on this topic. Sooooo very helpful for many many people, me included. Thnx again! 😊

  • @rogerbartlet5720
    @rogerbartlet5720 2 місяці тому

    Always helpful, thank you.

  • @aprilmg7072
    @aprilmg7072 3 місяці тому

    This was so chaotic, integrating the web chat was so confusing

  • @aprilmg7072
    @aprilmg7072 3 місяці тому

    "You accept the amount of abuse you give yourself" ...damn

  • @anns.2621
    @anns.2621 3 місяці тому

    good topic very interesting but just a suggestion, could you remove the icicle twinkle lights in the background.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 3 місяці тому

      Sorry. It's too lat for that. Sorry it's distracting

  • @ssing7113
    @ssing7113 4 місяці тому

    Codependency ( one version , and a very great one ) : “someone’s who’s thinking and behavior revolves around something other then themselves - Darlene Lancer 🙏

  • @TheMysticPete
    @TheMysticPete 4 місяці тому

    Well spoken!!!

  • @user-gv9mp5yc9u
    @user-gv9mp5yc9u 4 місяці тому

    The point of an interview is to elicit information from the subject. Lilli talked more than Darlene. Her non questions were about expounding her personal issues and "knowledge." This was a missed opportunity to learn from Darlene, a forerunner in the nascent area of codependency therapy. Lilli definitely filled my dislike tank.

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 4 місяці тому

    What if speaking your mind means ur trying to give advice on something in the workplace that could be better LOL 😂

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 4 місяці тому

      Part of learning to be assertive means you use I statements and talk about yourself and your feelings and needs. When you don't your communications aren't effective. But there are ways to say the same thing constructively. See whatiscodependency.com/6-keys-to-assertive-communication/ Practice the steps and exercises in "How to Be Assertive" whatiscodependency.com/product/how-to-be-assertive/

  • @rainflower5874
    @rainflower5874 4 місяці тому

    If a true narcissist cannot: empathize, see you as a person with feelings, control their reactions when they perceive criticism, is there ever enough in the relationship to make the partner feel that it is worth it to continue? I mean, I don't want to have to explain to a grown man WHY it's important for him to come to the hospital if my relative is near death. Seems like a controlled form of codependency, in which the partner is continually adapting to the narc in order to obtain the most basic level of reciprocity. Whole lot of exhaustive, additional one-sided work.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 4 місяці тому

      A very good question. First narcissism is on a continuum. Some people with NPD have all 9 required symptoms and they're severe + aggression (not a symptom) and they may have sociopathic symptoms, too, like breaking the law, no remorse, callousness, dishonesty. Other narcissists may only have the minimum of 5 traits and they may not be severe. Moreover, narcissists can learn to control their reactions and not be abusive, when the steps in my book are followed. They can have cognitive but not emotional empathy and can understand when feelings are explained to them - if you make it worth their while, which I also address in my book. Finally, all partners differ. To some people, emotional intimacy is a high priority, but others prioritize financial security, their independence, or lifestyle. Learn more here: original.newsbreak.com/@darlene-lancer-lmft-1590535/3346096282166-the-difference-between-most-narcissists-and-a-psychopathic-narcissist

    • @rainflower5874
      @rainflower5874 4 місяці тому

      @@DarleneLancer Thank you for your response and the information.

  • @munkami
    @munkami 4 місяці тому

    I like the slot machine, addictive analogy, as a codependent son to a narcissistic mother who became widowed in my childhood. My survival was to lean into the rescuer role and support my mother - be her counsellor, her gardener, her surrogate on vacations. There was no-one else around and I couldn't bear to see her so unwell and unhappy on her own. Extremely vulnerable and childlike. My sister took all the abuse and was scapegoated. Her life is ruined, sadly. I am waking up to this now at 45. I always knew it was dysfunctional but ran away to find myself. But it's not until you get therapy you can really find that person, that child, who started disappearing around the age of 8 or 9.

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 4 місяці тому

      I'm so glad you found help. Read this blog: www.msn.com/en-us/news/other/how-narcissistic-mothers-damage-their-sons/ar-BB1lsOKI?

    • @munkami
      @munkami 4 місяці тому

      @@DarleneLancer thank you. All of those points ring true to greater or lesser degrees. Having lost my Dad at 12, I accepted quite quickly that I was on my own as the 'man of the house' with no accessible family nearby. I think that empowered me somehow but I also had a loving family in another country who I lived with for almost a year. That's what saved me, I think. And not going back to live with her but move to the city. However, a mother doesn't change! We just have to accept that she isn't right in the head and she herself suggests something happened in a hospital when she was tiny. Of course, all the family are frustrated with her and when I left I was guilt tripped into staying with her 'because she will miss me'. It was very normal that everyone around me said 'you need to be there for your Mother'. Even my Dad left that sentiment in a note to me before he passed of terminal cancer. So the set up was always there. And it was a form of survival. Perhaps society needs more education and awareness on appropriate parental boundaries and what to do in single parent families?

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing. I suggest reading more on my website, www.whatiscodependency.com, and in my books. Subscribe to my blog.

    • @munkami
      @munkami 4 місяці тому

      @@DarleneLancer Thank you Darlene, I appreciate it ☺

  • @izzar1156
    @izzar1156 4 місяці тому

    Yes they come accross as loving, modest, compassionate people. I was just dating 1. I got shock when out of the blue this lovely person started to gaslight me, lying, denying making victim out of himself etc.very vindictive.But he called me tough cookie because I was not falling for all the nonsense. So he said he doesn't want to be with me anyways. I think Narcissism is the worst personality disorder.Narcissists should form relationships with another narcissts

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 4 місяці тому

      Don't take his comments to heart, because narcissists always need to have the last word and put you down to preserve their ego. You dodged a bullet!

    • @izzar1156
      @izzar1156 4 місяці тому

      @@DarleneLancer yes no big loss!Looking fareward to read your book. It seems he is scared of me

  • @heathergrey7893
    @heathergrey7893 4 місяці тому

    So how do you get the shame out of the body? Do you tap? Is it journaling? What can be done?

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 4 місяці тому

      Good question. My book on shame is 1/3 exercises. Tapping can be helpful in the moment, but it's important to find its roots, spot it when it's happening, comfort your wounded self, and change your belief system. See also my blog, Healing the Wounded Child. It's best to work with a trauma-informed therapist.

  • @BratFyre
    @BratFyre 4 місяці тому

    Are 12 step programs really that important, out of curiosity? I've read in your book and John Bradshaw's that they are but... I look at them and it's like. "Admitting you're powerless" and expecting a "higher power" to deal with it... Isn't that just shame repackaged? It feels to me like it's disempowering the individual?

  • @BratFyre
    @BratFyre 4 місяці тому

    I read your book, conquering shame and codependency. Firstly it's the first book I've managed to finish in over 10 years, on top of that it was a non-fiction book which I was never big on reading when I can. It's been helping a lot and has helped me with massive changes in a very short amount of time. Thank you so much for writing it. It was confronting at times but extremely helpful.

  • @CHSN-1
    @CHSN-1 5 місяців тому

    Omg I think this is why I keep self sabotaging🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @Sunny_Day1111
    @Sunny_Day1111 5 місяців тому

    This is wonderful. Thank you for breaking it down into parts that I can dive more deeply into.

  • @DwyaneWadeCounty
    @DwyaneWadeCounty 5 місяців тому

    Sometimes when i am socializing or engage with a certain person, or when someone is trying to get "close" to me, or maybe I am revealing certain personal information about myself, I begin to shake/shiver/tremble. I don't know what my body is trying to tell me. What does it mean? Is my body trying to alert me that the person is bad? Or do I need to stay with the feeling?

  • @melissafoster9701
    @melissafoster9701 5 місяців тому

    I just divorced an alcoholic 3. months ago.He won't talk to me I'm grieving he hasn't blown me but I've texted him for 40 days and he won't respond he's spread rumors about me and he's living with a very unattractive woman by a liquor store.He has heart failure implanted defibulator 9 yrs married

  • @user-hz1vc1ys7v
    @user-hz1vc1ys7v 5 місяців тому

    What is the name of her book?

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 5 місяців тому

      Codependency for Dummies amzn.to/1BBcrWO; Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You amzn.to/37fueWd

  • @PopsieDoo
    @PopsieDoo 5 місяців тому

    Why does she keep interrupting! Can someone set a boundary with her, please!

  • @lesliealley1882
    @lesliealley1882 6 місяців тому

    I suffer from post traumatic stress disorder due to Childhood Traumas. I've been shot at with a box of bullets, starved, molested, beaten, and neglected. All before I was 8. How do I fix me? I've never been loved and now am contemplating suicide. Can you help me learn to love me?

  • @nga672
    @nga672 6 місяців тому

    Good job ladies!

  • @TheInnerMindEye
    @TheInnerMindEye 6 місяців тому

    I appreciate your effort to have a discussion with Darlene but please stop side tracking the discussion by constantly interjecting with remarks about how you are stalking her or that she is directing the conversation. As a listener it is distracting from the actual topic of conversation which is complex and demands attention. Thank you.

  • @lindamar56
    @lindamar56 6 місяців тому

    Please, do another program ! The way you interact is prieceless !

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 6 місяців тому

      There are many more on my UA-cam channel, and podcasts as well at whatiscodependency.com/how-to-overcome-codependency-low-self-esteem/

  • @NextLevelTherapy
    @NextLevelTherapy 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for the resource - Dating, Loving and Leaving a Narcissist

  • @lindamar56
    @lindamar56 6 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @elizabeth6824
    @elizabeth6824 7 місяців тому

    I often struggle with codependency with my young children which limits my ability to show them true love which is not spurred by fear and anxiety. On my good days, I am not reactive and I see my children flourish. Listening to these exercises, I felt myself shift back into a good state and I do not feel as fear of mistakes as I was earlier today. Very grateful! I did not expect it!

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 7 місяців тому

      Find more on my website, including a self-love meditation.

  • @dee0731
    @dee0731 7 місяців тому

    Well explained to understand codependency for me :)

    • @DarleneLancer
      @DarleneLancer 7 місяців тому

      Learn more on my website blogs and podcasts.

  • @philipcharles8218
    @philipcharles8218 7 місяців тому

    The codependats predicament. So in need of love too, Then bestow upon to you. The lust passion desire, To worship follow admire The wants hopes dreams, To thoughts pains screams. The voice opinion need, To wait serve plead. The doubt dread fears, To heartache dispair tears. So in need of love too, Then bestow upon to you. All except the breathe, In a lonely deathless death. .